The Ethical Engagement Ring Buying Guide

An engagement ring is one of the most meaningful purchases you’ll ever make — a symbol of love, commitment, and your shared future. But it’s also an opportunity to choose something that reflects your values. At Skydiamond, we believe your forever ring should honour not only your relationship, but the world around you.

This guide walks you through everything you need to know when buying an engagement ring, from diamond shapes to diamond certification — helping you make a confident, considered decision.

Understanding Preferences

While 79% of individuals express their ring preferences before the proposal, there's still a significant gap in knowing the exact details. Pay attention to your partner’s jewellery preferences. Do they prefer classic, vintage, or modern styles? Are they drawn to certain metals like gold, platinum, or white gold? Sneak a look at their existing jewellery or chat with close friends or family members for advice.

Setting a Budget

Before you start shopping, determine how much you're willing to spend. Engagement rings come in a wide range of prices, and having a budget helps narrow down your options. Remember, it's not just about the price but the value and significance of the ring.

When setting a budget for an engagement ring, start by assessing your current financial situation to determine an amount that you’re comfortable spending without straining your finances, remembering that the engagement ring is just the beginning of many future expenses together. It’s also important to consider any hints or direct suggestions your partner may have given about their dream ring, as balancing your partner's desires with your budget is crucial for a perfect choice.

Pick a setting that tells a story

When it comes to choosing the perfect engagement ring, the setting is crucial. It doesn't just showcase the diamond; it adds personality, flair, and a unique touch to the ring.

Solitaire – Simple, timeless, and elegant

Halo – Enhances brilliance with a touch of vintage charm

Three-stone – Symbolises your past, present, and future

Pavé or Diamond Band - Adds shimmer without overpowering

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Select Your Recycled Metal

When choosing a metal for your engagement ring, it’s about more than just colour — it’s about the overall tone and longevity of your piece. Yellow or white gold offers classic warmth and versatility, complementing a wide range of styles. Platinum, with its cool lustre and superior durability, is ideal for those seeking a refined, low-maintenance option.

For something more distinctive, mixed metal designs are growing in popularity, offering a modern, personalised twist that blends tradition with individuality.

Choose Your Diamond Shape

The shape of your diamond sets the tone for the entire ring. Consider what resonates most with your partner’s style:

Round Brilliant – Classic and timeless, with maximum brilliance

Oval – Elegant and elongating, modern yet romantic

Cushion – Soft, vintage feel with rounded corners

Emerald – Clean and architectural, with step-cut elegance

Asscher – Art Deco charm with a vintage soul

Radiant – A bold hybrid of brilliance and structure

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Understanding the 4Cs

When buying a diamond, you’ll hear about the 4Cs: Cut, Clarity, Colour, and Carat Weight. Here’s how they work:

Cut – The most important C. A high-quality cut creates brilliance and fire.

Clarity – Measures natural inclusions. Eye-clean is often ideal.

Colour – D–F is colourless; G–H still appears white to most eyes.

Carat – Bigger isn’t always better; balance size with cut and quality.

At Skydiamond, all our diamonds are expertly cut, certified, and sustainably
grown, so you can focus on what really matters.

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Certified With Confidence

Every Skydiamond is independently certified by the Birmingham Assay Office Gemmology Lab, one of the world’s most trusted authorities in gemstone testing. Using advanced technology and expert analysis, each diamond is carefully assessed and assigned a unique report, guaranteeing quality, authenticity, and full traceability.

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Find The Perfect Fit

A ring should feel like a natural extension of the hand — secure, comfortable, and effortless. But finding the right size is just as important as choosing the diamond itself. Here's how to get it right:

Measure at the right time: Fingers can change size slightly throughout the day. Aim to measure at the end of the day, when your hands are at their largest.

Don't guess: If the ring is a surprise, borrow a ring your partner wears on their ring finger (left hand) and have it professionally sized.

Use a ring sizer: We recommend using a ring sizing tool or requesting one from us — it’s the most accurate way to find your size at home.

At Skydiamond, we offer complimentary resizing after purchase, so you can choose with confidence.

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Need Help? We're here for you

Choosing an engagement ring is a deeply personal decision — and we're here to guide you every step of the way. Whether you're unsure about diamond cuts, settings, sizing or simply want to talk through your ideas, our expert team is on hand to help.

Get in touch for tailored advice, styling support, or to book a personal consultation.

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